Often times, Christians find themselves feeling like they're not measuring up because most of the time, cool is not associated with Christ. If you choose not to turn up every weekend, go to clubs, shake your butt in front of a camera, or use fake, wax-faced, flower crown Snapchat filters (Snapchat is SO overrated! Yeah, I said it!), if you don't look or act like everybody else, society labels you weird or lame. In a world that equates worth with likes, comments, and material things, it's easy to lose sight of our worth when we're looking at things through the wrong lens—a worldly one, not a Godly one.
I won't lie and say I don't care at all about what others think. Unfortunately, it's human nature for us to care what the world thinks. In elementary school I was bullied because I have a mild case of cerebral palsy which impedes my ability to run and climb. Kids teased me because I walk with a slight limp and I also have a visual impairment which causes my eye to wander. I used to let the things people said about me get under my skin until I realized two things: 1) I can't change the way God made me and 2) I only have to answer to what God calls me. Who cares what they say? Who are "they," anyway? I'm not gonna pretend like I don't have days where I feel less than. Of course I do. We all do. When I need a reminder of how much I mean to God, I play Anthony Brown & Group TherAPy's GRAMMY-nominated hit "Worth." (P.S. If you don't have Anthony's album Everyday Jesus, click here and get it NOW. It was so good, it won Anthony 10 Stellar awards in 2016—it won in every category in which it was nominated!) but I digress. Anyway, "Worth" is a simple song with a really powerful message.
|Anthony Brown Everyday Jesus Album cover / Twitter
You thought I was worth saving,
So You came and changed my life.
You thought I was worth keeping,
So You cleaned me up inside.
You thought I was to die for,
So You sacrificed Your life
So I could be free,
So I could be whole,
So I can tell everyone I know...
Yes, I am a Christian. No, you won't find me at the club poppin' bottles or at a kickback getting high, and no, I don't walk like everyone else...because I'm choosing to walk with God. I'm on a mission as a representative of Christ. The world might not think I'm "cool," but Jesus thinks I'm to die for. That alone is enough. I'm done comparing my behind-the-scenes stuff to everyone else's highlight reel. Comparison is the thief of joy. In Mark 8:34-36 (NIV), Jesus tells his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me and the gospel will save it. What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, yet forfeit his soul?" "Cool" isn't worth it if it costs you eternity. If it doesn't get me into heaven, I don't want it. Point blank, period.
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I'll be standing by myself, and I'll have to answer for myself. He won't care if I was on trend, on Twitter or otherwise. He won't care what I looked like, how many people liked my selfie, or how many Facebook friends and Instagram followers I had. His only concern will be if I honored Him with my life. Will my gifts be used up when my time is through? Can my life be used as a template for other Christians to follow? I hope so. That's what matters. My worth does not lie in what others think of me. The only One I need to satisfy is God. That's easier said than done, of course, but there's so much more to life than being cool and flexin' on the 'gram with cars, money, clothes, accolades, and everything else society says we have to have in order to go viral or become a trending topic. We need to challenge ourselves to pray more than we post. Social media has made it scarily easy for us to become anti-social. Put your phone down and TALK to people face-to-face. Stop trying so hard to get them to follow you and encourage them to follow Jesus.
Oh, and by the way, serving God IS cool. The turn up is different, but it can be fun, especially if you surround yourself with like-minded people who also love God. In John 8:12 (NIV), Jesus says, "